I am unable to help people who are unwilling to help themselves. In fact, I can't help anyone at all. I can not think for someone, I can not do everything for everyone. I must do for myself and hope people care for themselves because it is simply not possible for me to care for everyone.

Even if I bought a pixel and installed graphene on it and gave it to someone, I still can not help them because they would reject to use it.

All that I can do is point people to the resources they can use to help themselves.

The sooner you realize you can't actually help people, you can only point them to where they can go to help themselves or how to help themselves, the sooner you will mature as an adult and the less pain you will experience in life.