Think it can be heavily tied into the game theory concept, there's a natural defence mechanism against aggression we've adopted due to the nature of the beast. 

I believe it's what we are truly challenging here and now. And evidently have been for a long time. 

tommyedz_crp

That is a really valid point. I detest the ‘if you are not for you must be against’ argument. I feel like saying; ‘maybe I am just working it out in my head rather than letting you and your bias do it for me.’

carlosfandango

What's essential to learn that's not taught in school?

birdeye21

I believe it's also OK to not take a stance either way, it's humble to acknowledge various perspectives (not opinions) without having to choose a side. Giving ourselves a moment to digest and muse, and additionally, allowing the other party to reflect on another perspective without prejudice of being told that are wrong/incorrect or invalid.