Sir, Localbitcoins is no longer. And even when they were operating they discontinued the in-person cash trading method.

And after Paxful closed for a long time after the CEO quit, and has now reopened -- i assume law enforcement is in there either ooerating it, or at least monitoring all activity.

Robosats, bisq, hodhodl, and localcoinswap are verification-free (i.e. no KYC) and non-custodial.