for me, this is what Gods role is.
I never used to be like that. I tried taking peoples advice on everything for the first 38 years of my life, instead.
I do love infographics, and find in general the idea here is:
when you need help, don't be afraid to ask for it.
i did learn a lot about the world initially by watching people do things and make mistakes, so i didn't have to make them myself, so there's that - also.