IMHO, if you are looking for a Twitter like experience.. you don't. Specially if you use it from a far location. I am paying for relays and truth is user experience is like dialing up in the early 90s.

Nostr devs need to figure out a way to push a monetized infrastructure that could be adopted by local ISPs worldwide as edge infrastructure. Nostr problem is HW and Telecom infrastructure in place that centralized services use, the only way to battle this is by allowing Nostr Relay servers to be packed and pilled down the ISPs throats. Today they already host most cache service for large content providers at their own operational expenses without even having the chance to monetize, its basically rip-off.