I like how you appear to take the good and the bad in your stride. Thanks for being open about your experience again

we are living in Spain. for 16 years now.. 
It could be better.. But could also be lot worse. Cant complain. Barcelona is a cool place. I had to leave the city and move outside the city for a quitter living though


Thanks for sharing your experience! It makes me feel less alone. Which country are you based in now? Conducive enough for child rearing?

cryotosensei

Confessions of a burnt-out father

Man.. i feel you,
im a late dad in my early 40s,
Oldest have now 4 and youngest 1year old.. 
Both expats witth no direct support of family because of distance,
It affected me in so may ways.. And yes, its hard.. 
I like to think it will pass and im pretty sure we will miss it one day.. 
But yes, hard af meanwhile.. 
Stay strong buddy