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Yeah, it's called listening to Bent & Odell's Rabbit Hole Recap.

Or, better idea, use a coin with a blockchain that is feeless or virtually feeless and you'll get your transaction included in a block GUARANTEED and without waiting an unknown amount of time for it to happen. Some suggestions would be litecoin, dash, WAXP, AVAX, Polygon for starters.