5 years. Easy decision for me. My son is 4 years old now. My baby girl just reached her first year milestone. I’m currently in the rush hour of life where I constantly question myself about whether it is worth sacrificing my time energy effort as well as my personal pursuits n social life to raise two children who can’t stop crying/whining. If I can see 5 years into the future, maybe I will draw some strength to cope with the here and now