There is something strange about the pain of losing someone whom you never knew. You did not know them at all and yet, it felt like you knew them so much. They influenced your life in so many little ways and made up such a big part of it without you ever realising.
I remember when the news of Chester Bennington’s passing had broken. The existence of Linkin Park had been pushed somewhere into the obscure recesses of my brain, and when that news broke, it resurfaced, like that mole from carnival games.
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I hadn't thought about it in these terms before but very true. A melancholy wrapped up in these losses with a different flavor from the usual. Strikes me as a thing that's very modern -- our ability to feel these close attachments to people who we've spent so many hours with -- feeling intensely with, in many cases -- but never knew.
Such a concept would have made no sense for most of human history. We're feeling "innovative" emotions. The emotional version of technological determinism, perhaps.
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Even though I've never owned any Apple products, I can still remember exactly where I was and the unexpected sense of loss I felt the day Steve Jobs died.
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I teared up when I heard Neil Peart died.
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