The one you make with your family and your friends. My wife runs a homeschool co-operative, and I started getting the dads together. We hang pretty regularly, just hangout, play cards, go see a movie. The types of guys and views is all over the place, but we all have the same value of how we are raising our kids, so it is a lot of fun and beneficial. We care about each others lives. Talk about jobs, raises, troubles, etc. Not everyone is super tight, but we keep getting tighter as time goes on.

I would have said church, but since that's run by the elders, and I'm not one, it feels like someone else's culture. Not bad. Just someone else's so not as enjoyable as the one my wife and I have made.