53 sats \ 1 reply \ @398ja 31 Jan
Absolutely NOT! 🙏 There's a book called "punished by rewards", author Alfie Kohn, which convincingly xplains why this is a bad idea and on the long run contra-productive.
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101 sats \ 1 reply \ @0fje0 OP 30 Jan
Hasn't worked well for my kids. :)
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @OT 31 Jan
This is my wife's default. There must be a better way
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