Figuring out your core values is one of the most important exercises you will ever do.
Here’s why it matters so much: your values are like your compass in life, guiding you towards what matters most to you. This is especially important in an Old Happy world that imposes its values upon us.
When you know your values, it becomes so much easier to improve your life, to make changes in your day-to-day activities and in the long-term goals that you choose to pursue.
If you feel stuck in life… figuring out your values will help you. If you’re unhappy with your life… figuring out your values will help you. If you’re feeling lost… figuring out your values will help you.
And today, it’s time for you to figure out yours — if you have 5-10 spare minutes, try the following:
  1. Copy and paste the list of values you find below in a new comment.
  2. By exclusion, narrow down this selection until you keep 21 of them.
  3. When done, restart by exclusion process until you keep only 12
  4. Iterate one more time the list of values until you keep the 6 values that are most important to you. These are your current core values.
  5. When you’re done, hit reply and let me know what your Core 6 are.
I can’t wait to hear!
Conformity Accountability Courtesy Obedience Politeness Self-Discipline Tradition Community Faith Power Authority Competition Control Fame Universalism Accessibility Acceptance Awe Consciousness Diversity Recognition Reputation Environmentalism Status Heroism Inclusion Stimulation History Humility Art Legacy Boldness Loyalty Respect for Others Challenge Confidence Courage Security Creativity Approval Balance Adaptation Determination Exploration Impact Interconnectedness Joy Justice Nature Peace Selflessness Transcendence Wonder Wisdom Belonging Learning Fairness Novelty Benevolence Harmony Vitality Affection Health Zest for life Altruism Stability Charity Wealth Self-Direction Assertiveness Compassion Forgiveness Achievement Autonomy Giving Competence Mastery Success Accomplishment Hedonism Abundance Amusement Bliss Enjoyment Pleasure Choice Freedom Focus Honesty Imagination Independence Open-mindedness Passion Self-awareness Self-respect Authenticity Gratitude Kindness Love Teamwork Thoughtfulness
  • Humility
  • Adaptation
  • Justice
  • Wisdom
  • Authenticity
  • Thoughtfulness
I had to whittle down to 46. The jump from 101 to 21 was too radical for me.
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21 sats \ 0 replies \ @TNH OP 8 Feb
Thanks for your feedback, and for sharing your process using a spreadsheet. Really smart. It's also good practice to repeat the exercise now and then to validate your core values or maybe find some new ones as an outcome of a ever-changing life
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I am hoping to do this activity but feels a bit overwhelming at the moment, will save for when I have some more mental space
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Strange that privacy or fitness is not on the initial list
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List is endless, just compiled the most common ones. You're definitely welcome to go forward and write your own
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