I've posted a simple question #433828, which I - and many others - couldn't find an answer too, but I think I've found it today.
I've enlisted in the national reserves not too long ago, and had my first "real" training today with the others. I've never been the social-one in the family, and thus, as I sat there amongst the many new faces, I noticed how content I am whenever I'm with my family; they really are my only social-circle, as sad as that might sound to some, but it's where I can be me wherever we are.
It made me realize that money spent on these fine people is money well-spent- be it a vacation, or something as simple as going to the restaurant together.
It's pretty astounding how long it took me to get to this realization- the answer presented itself to me on a daily basis.
If y'all are stuck with the same question, consider spending some money on your loved ones; even it's "only" a personal material want of theirs, if Bitcoin ables you to do so, think about it.