Really great post. I would personally give up the "sexism" storyline - families were more functional when there was a clear division of labor. Now both parents work 40+ hours and pay someone else to raise the kids.
That being said, I am a big believer that you can hold your bitcoin forever and live well. I think part of the answer for you could be finding what really drives you: are you driven by earning money or are you driven by building something? or something else? - you can find many things to build in your life. If earning money is what brings you contentment, that is fine too - but don't sell the bitcoin. haha.
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