Use to be more of a drinker however over the past 18 months I slowed it down alot coming to the conclusion of you should still be able to go out and have a good time sober... if u need alcohol you don't have much of a personality does it make outings funner sure...it's just so normalized in people's minds that it's a common thing among adults...the other day went out for coffee I was downing a bunch and my friend said ur getting another I'll look at them and say if it were a beer u wouldn't say that u see how weird that is and they said u make a good point idk just my 2 sats