get your wife on board. i'm in a few leagues and although i do compete in some really competitive leagues, mostly i just enjoy the for fun leagues. new players aren't something to take advantage of, they're people to coach and help along. i'm here to provide a fun environment not sap peoples enjoyment out of a game. taking advantage of people isn't my MO. i just want to have a good time and talk nonsense with like minded individuals.

what i'm getting at is if she's interested but put off at the idea of being a target for more experienced players (and this goes for anyone else reading this). not on my watch.