Everyone, at some point in their life, has made a mistake. Sometimes we get lucky and only falter a little, making it through the problem relatively intact. Other times, we mess up a lot and have to fix what was damaged over a long period of time. However, the same is true for most, if not all cases—those who make the mistake learn from it. Often times, our failures teach us valuable lessons that we only gained because of the experience we gathered after messing up. I have personally achieved a wealth of knowledge and experience just from all of my own little mishaps, and a few major ones.
That turbulent time which taught me through failure was when I tried to arrange a birthday party for my sister. Everything was supposed to be arranged by me, so I went out a bought the invitation cards, party favors, balloons, decorations, food, and a few gifts. I filled out the invitations early and put them in a box to store them until I was ready to send them. Time flew by fast between daily life with my kids and responsibilities, and before I knew it the day of the party was upon me. Quickly that morning I decorated and cooked and prepared everything. As the hour of the party came and went, no one showed up but the birthday girl, whom I had called personally. Later it occurred to me that I hadn’t sent out the invitations! That was why no one had come. I soon learned from that mistake to be more organized and manage my time better when planning events.
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If you do the right thing, most people will wind up hating you for it. This isn't a mistake as much as it is a general fact.
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Thank you for acknowledging.
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Around a decade ago, shortly after my grandfather's death I was having dinner at a restaurant with my Aunt and Uncle who were in town visiting. We enjoyed some nice steak and too much wine. My uncle gave me a framed photo of my grandfather as a young man. It was the only copy of this specific photo and it had gone to my uncle but he wanted me to have it. After the dinner, my aunt and uncle headed back to their hotel and I went to meet a friend at a local bar for some more drinks, which became several more drinks. I took a taxi home and went to bed. The next morning I realized I had left the bag with the framed photo in the bar. I called them as soon as they opened and they said nothing had been turned in by their customers, staff or cleaning crew. At first I was angry, as I couldn't believe that someone wouldn't turn it in if they looked inside and saw it was just a framed photo but I had to accept it was my own drunken stupidity that caused me to forget it.
I was so ashamed and disappointed with myself. This incident coupled with a couple other incidents involving far too much drinking caused me to re-evaluate my lifestyle and soon after I quit drinking and I haven't had a drink since. I haven't had a drink in over 9.5 years.
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Sounds good that you haven't had a drink over almost 10 years . First you take a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes you. I suggest everyone not to drink too much that impacts your personal and professional live too.
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