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If your spouse is really going to die, it may be appropriate to say goodbye to her. Maybe sometimes you didn't treat her well, maybe everything was perfect. It would be nice to talk about these things and comfort her.
Something interesting about addiction, in any sense, is that most people are addicts because they believe they 'are' something, or that they 'need' something. For example, a person who is a smoker will likely not quit smoking until they truly believe they are no longer a smoker. The problem is, when smokers try to quit, they meet the challenge and likely fail if they believe that they are still a smoker trying to quit. It is only when the smoker believes they are a non-smoker that they can summon the willpower and discipline to make a change in their lives. Of course, I mention this with the disclaimer that some people have deeper-rooted addictions and need medical support.
My belief is that the same is true for addictive online content. I do not want to minimize your efforts, but the fact that you use an app to control your time is like a smoker using nicotine gum to control their cigarette addiction: they have not truly committed to the idea that they are no longer a smoker. They are using a bandage to slowly taper off of the action of smoking, but have not yet truly committed to the idea that they are no longer a smoker.
I believe that you need to draw your motivation from the mundane and tactile things in life. Allow yourself to be bored and sit through the uncomfortable moments of not knowing what to do and not having anything to do. I would encourage you to think of actions like conversations: when you are in a conversation, face to face with another person, if there is a moment of silence, do you immediately fill it with more mouth noise? Or, do you allow the conversation to have its natural pauses? Looking at digital devices is like having a conversation with yourself. You ought to allow yourself to pause the use, otherwise, all you start to do is talk all day, and that is both exhausting and annoying.
Allow yourself to explore the tactile things in life. Breathe the air. Feel your feet on the ground. Watch the small glimmers of light that the sun casts on objects during sunrise and sunset. There is no magic cure. The solution is not more digital tools. The solution is to let go and remember that we are human and the only thing unnatural are the screens we find ourselves revisiting in hope of a deeper meaning... except, you will never find that deeper meaning.
Good luck.
I wish someone could explain crypto in the dumbest format and very point form like three sentences lol then I would forsure get it.
I don’t know how to explain crypto what so ever.
I just have some and I like it.
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Also dont forget the Tesla Bot. They are also a big big thing in the future.
Real Automation is coming.
Brands make you feel part of something. We as humans are drawn to things we think will attract other humans. Our basic instincts have been used to get us to buy, sell and obey since they wrote some peoples favorite fairy tale. “The Bible”. Once they figured out that worked marketing was born.
Just finished reading antirez’s “Coding with LLMs in the Summer of 2025” — really solid write-up. Appreciate how honest and grounded it is.
There’s so much noise out there about agents doing all the coding for you, but this piece brings it back to reality: LLMs are amazing tools, not magic. They help you move faster, catch bugs earlier, and explore design space way more efficiently — but only if you stay in control and guide the process.
The idea of pairing your instinct with the LLM’s PhD-level knowledge is 🔥. Totally agree that you need to feed it proper context, give it structure, and still be the one steering. Otherwise, you end up with bloated, brittle code.
Big thanks for sharing your workflow and mindset — it’s honestly the most useful take I’ve read in a while.
I agree with you Space Waves