Oh yeah, I know a lot of native English speakers absolutely don't use the subjunctive, or use it almost randomly. I think I notice it myself more when I'm reading than when I'm having a conversation, to be honest (probably because speaking is more informal and grammar rules get broken more often in speech in general).

StillStackinAfterAllTheseYears

The reason I'm asking is that have the impression that more often than not I notice native speakers not using it. But it's maybe confirmation bias as I probably don't get triggered when native speakers do use it.