I want to share a delightful passage from Astrid Lindgren's Pippi Longstocking, which I came across by way of an interview between her and journalist Jonathan Cotts. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did:
"The children came to a perfume shop. In the show window was a large jar of freckle salve, and beside the jar was a sign, which read: DO YOU SUFFER FROM FRECKLES?‘What does the sign say?’ asked Pippi. She couldn’t read very well because she didn’t want to go to school as other children did.It says, ‘Do you suffer from freckles?’ said Annika.‘Does it indeed?’ said Pippi thoughtfully. ‘Well, a civil question deserves a civil answer. Let’s go in.’She opened the door and entered the shop, closely followed by Tommy and Annika. An elderly lady stood back of the counter. Pippi went right up to her. ‘No!’ she said decidedly.‘What is it you want?’ asked the lady.‘No,’ said Pippi once more.‘I don’t understand what you mean,’ said the lady.‘No, I don’t suffer from freckles,’ said Pippi.Then the lady understood, but she took one look at Pippi and burst out, ‘But, my dear child, your whole face is covered with freckles!’‘I know that,’ said Pippi, ‘but I don’t suffer from them. I love them. Good morning.’She turned to leave, but when she got to the door she looked back and cried, ‘But if you should happen to get in any salve that gives people more freckles, then you can send me seven or eight jars.'"
Pippi wasn't willing to accept that lady's idea of what was 'good' and what was 'bad.' Because of that, she refused to judge herself for it. Even further, she knew that what made her unique should actually be celebrated, encouraged, cultivated. I hope that, the next time you feel tempted to judge yourself according to someone else's ideas, you remember this story and remember: you can choose to love yourself instead, exactly as you are.