As it is, it greatly influences how you feel emotionally. It's a rollercoaster of emotions. Today my daughter gave me a lesson, she was complaining to me because she had to cook (I don't like doing it) and she told me: "don't focus on what you are going to cook but on how delicious the noodles are going to be." Haha, sometimes I think she has better emotional intelligence than me. There are days more exhausting than others. Fatherhood can be on any spectrum of colors