I wonder if concepts like fate and destiny (your destination) are antique storytellers' way of transmitting the knowledge that "You are what you think"; what you think is your life, your life becomes.
It is my estimation that Western European fairy tales give as lessons traits of character that make for a virtuous person. The most common of these is to practice mercy and kindness on outcasts, with the reason being they may know great secrets or have great powers or be your great love.
Irwin remarks, however, that The Nights is much earthlier and grounded in reality: the most common lessons involve how to not get cheated in business (which may be why The Nights is sometimes recommended to businesspeople and entrepreneurs).
That's not to say that The Nights is not incredibly fanciful, such as the "witch's duel" between a princess and a Djinn, the ensorceled prince, the island where women grow on trees. Nor are European fairy tales not grounded in practical truths: the ubiquitous giant and stepmother are very likely metaphors for tyrannical adults1 or archetypal "social foes." Generally, however, the thematic lessons imparted seem to divide between materiality/immateriality.
To continue the above point, I thought for a moment the geographical differences between the settings of Europe and the Middle East: in many parts of Europe it is possible to live remotely, in the countryside and far from others.
According to Irwin, not many people lived outside of the city in the medieval Middle Eastern world. This may have a serious influence on what the content and lessons of the stories build toward: an inner peace vs embrace and dance with social life.
To remark on my earlier point regarding a child vs adult perspective, this difference may also have to do with intended audience: Throughout time, European fairy tales have become more and more tailored to a child-audience, whereas the stories from The Nights were performed orally by professional storytellers at night in public squares. We change our wares for our customers. Which remarks that European fairy tales and The Arabian Nights may just be entirely different products to begin with.
Footnotes
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See The Uses of Enchantment by Bruno Bettelheim. ↩