What are your practical recommendations to manage the fees? From the UX point of view it's a nightmare. If I specify 23 sats/vByte to close a channel the final result often varies from 12 to 80 and it seams totally unrelated from the current mempool activity.

bellabaxter

lightning

LND onchain fees management

LN isn't trustless because when you open a channel, you are trusting your channel peer not to close it during an unreasonably high fee environment. 

You think you own X% of the sats in your channel, but really, a miner owns some of those sats.
