How would you determine the difference between self-imposing FOMO (which creates a tourist, IMO) and real goals when traveling? I suppose it comes down to being able to discern "should" ideas and actual desire.
Perhaps, is the trip causing some distress? Are you becoming irritable because you are not completing your plans?
On the other hand, you’re missing some of your expectations but you have enjoyed an afternoon just relaxing with friends and a good conversation.
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