In today's highly digital dating landscape, we're often caught up in the quest for the 'perfect' match—perfect looks, perfect job, perfect hobbies. Yet, building a relationship is far from perfect. It's about growing together and navigating imperfections. The expectation of finding the complete package from day one is unrealistic and misses the essence of human connection. If perfection is what you're after, you'd be better off dating an AI robot partner, akin to the movie Her.

Human dating is about creating something meaningful together. You don't want someone who is 'perfect' because then there’s no room for growth, either for them or for you. A healthy relationship involves striving to become better versions of ourselves, both individually and as a couple.

Dating apps can present a distorted reality. They allow us to craft idealized versions of ourselves, raising expectations to unattainable levels. When reality doesn't match the profile, it often leads to immediate rejection, moving quickly onto the next option. This mentality prevents the formation of long-lasting, meaningful relationships because it avoids the necessary time, effort, and energy to truly get to know another person.

In the developed world, we're privileged to choose who we date, using tools like dating apps and websites. Contrast this with my grandparents' era of arranged marriages or my parents' time when you had to physically ask someone out. Despite these constraints, both generations have built beautiful partnerships. Their relationship journeys, full of challenges and hurdles, highlight that relationships are about supporting each other and growing together through life's ups and downs.

Dating has become a high time preference endeavor in the modern world, where immediate gratification is often prioritized. Many date for status or to showcase their 'trophy' partner. However, this superficial approach often leads to dissatisfaction and unfulfilling relationships.

Money is another significant factor in modern dating. While important for survival, financial stability can often come later as you grow and build together. Prioritizing a partner's job or title over their character and personality can result in unsuccessful dating experiences.

Ultimately, you should date someone who inspires you to be the best version of yourself, who believes in you unconditionally, and who is committed to personal growth. Avoid seeking a 'completed' package; such relationships can become stale quickly. Instead, be patient and build a relationship with someone imperfect yet with a good heart, someone who wants to grow alongside you.

In conclusion, modern dating often misleads us into seeking perfection. However, true relationships thrive on mutual growth and support. Embrace the imperfections, invest time and effort, and focus on building something meaningful together. After all, it's the journey and growth with your partner that create the most fulfilling and lasting relationships.