It’s the third day of the new school term. And I have come up with a new morning routine.
Previously, I woke up at 5.30am and did household chores while watching Netflix. I still wake up at the same time to tackle the same chores, but I have been listening to podcasts instead.
Previously, I couldn’t envision a life in which I gave up TV (or watched less of it). I enjoyed my mindless entertainment consumption time, but I didn’t enjoy myself feeling rushed. I would more often than not get absorbed in the drama I was watching, which meant that my movements were slow and inefficient. The last five minutes were spent typically hustling around the house, making sure everything was in order (and that I hadn’t inadvertently left the tap running).
Yes, I neglected to turn the tap completely off in my rush to get out of the house. Yes, it happened more than once. (just twice, but yes I’m scandalised.)
Previously, I wouldn’t have listened to Fountain podcasts if I didn’t get a few sats out of it. But I decided to switch my mindset. Shouldn’t I care more about the insights I derive from the podcast? If I want to grow as a human being, surely the sats are immaterial.
Listening to podcasts and doing household chores simultaneously is still technically multitasking, but it doesn’t demand as much attention and energy as watching the tube box. I did get kinda distracted when Lewis Howes, the podcast founder of The School of Greatness, shared that he was sexually abused as a kid. Anyway, because I focused singlemindedly on the chores, I now leave the house five minutes earlier than usual.
Five minutes may not seem like a long time, but boy, do I feel in control! I think my reliance on Netflix stemmed from my belief that doing household chores is boring, so I need to spice up that household maintenance time. However, when I decided to devote myself wholeheartedly to finishing them, I got rid of the rushed feeling that would otherwise be plaguing me.
When you try to multitask, it’s like trying to hold on to water that will slip through your fingers anyway. When you decide to do just one thing, your heart is fortified because you have chosen not to let other things cloud your focus. That level of discipline you exhibit is liberating. It’s like what they say in Bitcoin, ignore the noise, zoom in on the signal.
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@cryotosensei I feel you need to slow down a bit and enjoy life more.
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I think it will get better as my kids grow up. I’m going out for drinks this Friday night - it’s the first time I will go out n reclaim a semblance of my social life this year.
Right now, parenting takes up so much of my time that I feel compelled to optimise whatever time that is left over
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Just wait until the day when you realize that you’re actually streaming sats to the podcast, rather than receiving them, and you’re happy about supporting the creator.
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I think before that I need to increase my SN default zap from 49 to a hundred haha
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Here’s what ran through my mind when I realized I was sending out 10 sats per minute:
“Oh shit! Wait, it’s ok. This is a good episode and Clint deserves some sats.”
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I feel the same way about podcasts as you did about Netflix. I'm cutting back on podcasts unless I'm doing something truly mindless and longer-lasting (weeding, say).
Also I've noticed that if I'm listening to podcasts while doing chores, I don't have ideas, my mind doesn't wander. And I think that kind of thing (mind wandering) is actually a very useful, healthy thing.
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Great point. I do a lot of mind wandering while looking after my kids. Like ideas will come to me when I’m feeding or showering them
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I think you can easily multitask while doing certain things. Household chores is a good example. But your most important tasks of the day should garner your full attention.
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Affirmative. Like writing on SN!
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Physically setting a timer say for 15 minutes to stay off all distractions (Netflix, my phone, computer, etc, basically anything digital) helps me to focus on whatever task at hand. And interestingly, just by setting the timer, chores seem a lot less mundane and boring, and feel a bit more meditative.
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Setting the timer is a nice idea. I will do that in order to declutter my perpetual messy work desk haha
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Or I'll gamify things and challenge myself to get as many chores done before the timer goes off. Makes the mundane more fun!
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