Don't get me wrong. Sometimes a clean cut is the best of many bad choices. I've seen it happen, close to me. It's just not in my personal nature to make such drastic choices. Then again, I was never forced to make them.

south_korea_ln

Thanks, appreciate your response. Yes probably is a bit extreme, black and white view, when I know there could be plenty of greys in between and I also could make a difference in choosing which scale to create. Buy lately everything has been toward black, and that's why I feel in need of a radical change. 

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ideasfromtheedge

Dealing with Fam & Friends' Different Values when taking Life Changing Decisions

I don't know your story, but you're making it sound like an all-or-nothing decision. What about respecting their choices, as ill-advised they may be, and still following your own path? If you don't need their support to do your thing, you can surely have them along as passive bystanders without alienating them.