Great post. I've read all the comments to this time. Here's what I haven't seen....

1. Women are treated well by most men who are normal gentlemen. Just spending time with a nice lady is a big boost. However the end result can be unwanted sexual advance or careless sex that leads to unwanted children and abortions or psychological energy exchanged with many suitors that leads to depression.
2. As a man you are seeing the side of women that you do not want. This is good. Love your sister and pray for her to find a good mate for life. As for your self do the same. Love you.
3. We live in what is called the Kali Yuga or Age of Quarrel...

This is a Cro-Mags Album Cover from 1986. I was 16.

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The Age of Quarrel is an age where all right and wrong is confused and what is good is diminished. It's also a time where men who can decentralize and find morality and righteousness will prevail because this is favored by God.

This human life is not for living like a dog, pig, animal of slaughter or a predator. It's an age where new kings are born and men and women will seek the best of the best which is a very long time chain into wisdom.

For me I have always lived better by living a spiritual and transcendental life. God is there, here and all around. Ask for the truth and look for the longest written chain of wisdom. I've found it too be the Vedas.

Here's a passage from the Bhagavad -Gita:

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Bg. 2.2
DEVANAGARI SANSKRIT
श्री भगवानुवाच
कुतस्त्वा कश्मलमिदं विषमे समुपस्थितम् ।
अनार्यजुष्टमस्वर्ग्यकीर्तिकरमर्जुन ॥ २ ॥

TRANSLITERATION
śrī-bhagavān uvāca
kutas tvā kaśmalam idaṁ
viṣame samupasthitam
anārya-juṣṭam asvargyam
akīrti-karam arjuna

SYNONYMS
śrī bhagavān uvāca—the Supreme Personality of Godhead said; kutaḥ—wherefrom; tvā—unto you; kaśmalam—dirtiness; idam—this lamentation; viṣame—this hour of crisis; samupasthitam—arrived; anārya—persons who do not know the value of life; juṣṭam—practiced by; asvargyam—that which does not lead to higher planets; akīrti—infamy; karam—the cause of; arjuna—O Arjuna.

TRANSLATION
The Supreme Person [Bhagavān] said: My dear Arjuna, how have these impurities come upon you? They are not at all befitting a man who knows the progressive values of life. They do not lead to higher planets, but to infamy.

PURPORT
Kṛṣṇa and the Supreme Personality of Godhead are identical. Therefore Lord Kṛṣṇa is referred to as "Bhagavān" throughout the Gītā. Bhagavān is the ultimate in the Absolute Truth. Absolute Truth is realized in three phases of understanding, namely Brahman or the impersonal all-pervasive spirit; Paramātmā, or the localized aspect of the Supreme within the heart of all living entities; and Bhagavān, or the Supreme Personality of Godhead, Lord Kṛṣṇa. In the Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam this conception of the Absolute Truth is explained thus:
vadanti tat tattva-vidas tattvaṁ yaj jñānam advayam
brahmeti paramātmeti bhagavān iti śabdyate.
"The Absolute Truth is realized in three phases of understanding by the knower of the Absolute Truth, and all of them are identical. Such phases of the Absolute Truth are expressed as Brahman, Paramātmā, and Bhagavān." (Bhāg. 1.2.11) These three divine aspects can be explained by the example of the sun, which also has three different aspects, namely the sunshine, the sun's surface and the sun planet itself. One who studies the sunshine only is the preliminary student. One who understands the sun's surface is further advanced. And one who can enter into the sun planet is the highest. Ordinary students who are satisfied by simply understanding the sunshine—its universal pervasiveness and the glaring effulgence of its impersonal nature—may ... More https://prabhupadabooks.com/bg/2?d=1

For the longest chain of wisdom, the Vedas go back to an oral tradition of more than 5,000 years ago. This transcendental knowledge directly goes to 500 years ago of the modern Bhakti movement. This chain is on the literary language written for the Kali Yuga where men have less and less capable memories due to the bombarding information of promoted ignorance.

It's an open source knowledge. It's readily available with practice to you.