Oh, and also? The poison maker, no. But the community forcing socrates to drink the pre-made poison?
Anyway, analogies only go so far. Suggesting that abuse isn't abuse just because someone accepts it is......... sadly laughable.
Consent is not actually part of the definition of abuse, no matter how far down you go the list of dictionary or psychology definitions. Abuse is abusive behavior, allowed or not allowed. And......... look, suggesting if it's allowed, it's ok is...... it explains a lot about places I'll never return to. It's very..... making excuses for abusers. Not a good look. I hope it's not actually how you regard these things.
Also.... perhaps a strong argument could be made that consenting to abuse is immoral, for it harms one's soul.