Well, I went to the local library a few months back, and there was quite a handsome blonde girl at the desk, and since I have some books to return, I could take a chance and ask her if she'd like to go out with me... 😁

Otherwise I'm quite the hiking / outdoors fan.

Fabs

Hmmm - what kinds of things do you enjoy or have some curiosity around? I think those are the places to go to :) 

thebitcoindatingcoach

mostly_harmless

The Amount Of Attention Girls Get Is Off The Charts.

Thanks! I usually go on walks specifically to think out loud and reflect on the past days, myself, and my thoughts.

> staying frugal and being thoughtful/intentional and I will say some of my best dates did not involve spending any money.

This. You're trying to get to know the ***person***, after all, not his wallet.

> as for your biggest hurdle - if you don't go out out a lot and enjoy spending time by yourself - how do you expect people to meet/find/approach you?

Yep, I know, I'm trying to come up with outlets where I wouldn't look totally out of place (clubs and the likes), it's a tough nut to crack, though. 😁