Between daily chores and obligations, it can sometimes be difficult to spend time on SN. I win the hat one day and the next day I lose it and then I win it again. I've given up. My husband had to set an alarm on his phone to remind him to log into SN to interact and not lose the hat. You can keep it! And if you can't, it doesn't matter. You're still a valuable member of the community. Thanks for the mention.