Are they really your friends if they can't handle a disagreement or unwilling to listen to your different point of view?
Besides that - how can we really flesh out an idea if we are unwilling to ever be wrong or except that our friend might be incorrect? There are a ton of things that I said that ended up not being right...
If someone is getting heated about a particular subject I just say, 'Agree to disagree. We can move on to other topics until another time.'
So your answer to:
but what what is something that you strongly disagree over but can still be friends?
is literally everything?
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