Maybe a cliché response, but all the times I felt loneliness in my life, I embraced it and even be-friended it. I sat with it, and just let myself feel the feeling. I think that's one of the unique things about being human sometimes; we can feel the full spectrum of human emotions. Emotions come and go; I think someone said that a human emotion lasts for 90 seconds or so. I guess - if loneliness is chronic and reoccurring, I would seek out ways to connect with others, one step at a time; maybe reading a book, listening to a podcast, cooking something for someone, volunteering, join a local walking club, etc.
Appreciate your answer here, thanks a lot. Sometimes small activities turn out to be very powerfull. I like reading, but that sometimes sends me straight to the realm of phisical loneliness for too long. Balance may be the real solution to that.
Thanks again.
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very welcome! perhaps finding a book club could help with this, or reading at the park or cafe :)
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