71 sats \ 2 replies \ @oraltosun 24 Sep \ on: Dealing with loneliness meta
Loneliness is a difficult condition. The following three conditions apply to a person:
1- If you are alone, you have to experience your joy and sadness as they are
2- You are not alone and you have a good person by your side. Then you will find that your joy is doubled and your sadness is reduced by half.
3- You are not alone and there is someone bad with you. Then your joy is reduced by half, while your sadness is doubled.
Conclusion:
The best case is undoubtedly the second choice. But the worst situation is not the first, that is, being alone. The worst situation is the case with the third option. Am I right?
You're right, among these options that's definitely the ranking I would state too. Overall I would add that, depending on the kind of person that you are, being alone could be a leverage for bad emotions and neuroticism. When you experience reality alone, there's no feedback from the ouside, from other humans for example. No feedback means that you build the feedback yourself, that can be too harsh.
Thanks for your message, appreciate it.
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I agree this statement too. But it's still not the worst situation. What's worse than that is having someone you never want by your side.
Thank you.
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