My dad used to make me play drinking games with him when I was 7 or 8. And he always won. It honestly got me to stay away from alcohol later on. Not typical parenting but it worked well for me. My dad was a "bad" parent, but.. it was all perfect. I love how it shaped me.
For me the best advice for parents is not to spend time with their children, but rather to SPEND ALL THEIR TIME WITH THEIR CHILDREN.
A very old book said the following:
"These words that I am commanding you today must be in your heart, and you must inculcate them in your children and talk about them when you sit in your house, when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."
Although it referred to God's commandments for the Israelites, they are applicable to all aspects of life and highlights the importance of first being convinced ourselves and then "inculcate" NOT "impose" it.
Like that! I spend pretty much all my time outside work and school with the kids. I didn’t have my dad around so much when I was a kid so I’m trying to be around them as much as possible
My best parenting advice is that most of the stuff parents stress out about isn't as important as they think. It's ok to relax and actually enjoy parenting.
Yes for sure just because x parenting book says this doesn’t mean anything in the real world and getting stressed out because you child doesn’t do what the book says. Maybe don’t read parenting books would be good advice
I feel school is important for the social aspect, but you should help your kids pursue their own interests.
Most of the time, it isnt the same as other kids.
My kids are home schooled so I suppose that is a version of private school. I don't think private school is mandatory but it is certainly a better option than public school if you can afford it or if you have the time and temperament to homeschool that is also a great option.
Nice one. Home schooling is definitely growing in popularity. Wonder if there is a world chart showing amount in home schooling and the growth of it over time