Not sure what type of parent I'll be. I'm assuming I'd be the hands off type....hopefully not neglectful. I'd be happy as long as they are a truth seeker, wouldn't want to shape them into something that they end up regretting, although I'm not sure what direction or how much hand holding/shaping is necessary. I really should focus on spending quality time with the kid, 11 years seems like a lot but out of 72 it seems extremely short. Thanks for the advice and story.