I've advocated for OP's getting to set the reply fee before, but I hadn't thought of it being customizable to individual responders.
I want that too! Fantastic, a good way to punish (I don't know if it's ethical)
It's your attention and your post. You have every right to set the terms of engagement.
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You just need to be fine with it being visible to them afaict
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