For non custodial wallets, you should choose Electrum and Phoenix or if you are little bit familiar with technicals of LN you should choose Zeus. One more option is Muun (it's not lightning really but accepts through Submarine Swaps) lot of people prefer it because of ease of use, but remember network fees can sometimes be a little bit high but anyway really good for use.

And why do you use ZebDee? It's literally shit