Of all those things, the changing table, in my experience is the least valuable. I change my kids just about anywhere now. It’s still useful. Baby bathtubs I also think are overrated. More useful when they’re newborns. You just need a good place to bathe them. In our house we’ve used our own showers, basins of all kinds, sinks and even buckets. Whatever works best for you.

Things I think are musts: they’re own crib and they’re own room (so they get used to sleeping alone and in their own environment), a breast feeding chair will grant you your partner’s eternal gratitude. And clothes and cloth diapers for drool, etc.