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12 sats \ 4 replies \ @n01 OP 3 Dec 2024 \ parent \ on: If you have ever felt like a victim of @darthcoin... alter_native

Do you think that is productive? Has anyone helped you change by talking down to you? In my experience, I am better at helping someone make a change by being compassionate and meeting them where they are. Shit talking is childish, no? And I have yet to see him show humility..

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100 sats \ 3 replies \ @Lux 3 Dec 2024

i only wish to have had a mentor like him trough life to tell me: "what the fuck are you doing you idiot.." or slap me when needed

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12 sats \ 2 replies \ @n01 OP 3 Dec 2024

I guess I learn differently. I don't like being told what to do in that way. I like for someone to explain why for me instead of putting me down. I guess I am overly sensitive.

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100 sats \ 1 reply \ @Lux 3 Dec 2024

i think if the slap is educational, it's fine. just bullying for the sake of bullying, deserves a slap itself

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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @n01 OP 3 Dec 2024

I can see that. I just don't think it's necessary. I think there are other ways to get people to open their eyes. I know he wants to do good. Just different approaches. My main point was to empower people not to play the victim.

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