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32 sats \ 1 reply \ @freetx 17 Dec
In my own personal circle, I would guess that 30-50% of the "career moms" would convert to "stay-at-home moms" if their hubby was earning enough.
I think the things she is outlining in her article are mainly caused by monetary erosion of the economy.....
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Exactly, but if they are single mothers they are forced to leave their children in the care of another person in order to work. What I find funny is how women are pigeonholed into just raising children and staying at home cooking. If they do it differently then it means they have "maternal detachment."
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Each person deserves an outlet to express their humanity. For some women, this may be baking or sewing. For others, it may be the pursuit of a high art. Still, some may need the stimulation of working with a high volume of people or numbers. And others, like this author, need to criticize the choices of other mothers to find fulfillment outside of her children.
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It’s sucks that a women has to make the choice of start a family or pursue her career
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"Epidemic of maternal detachment" sounds sensationalist to me. How strange that they didn't take the time to interview mothers who work full time and hear their points of view and experiences. No matter what a mother does, there is always someone pointing one way or another. If a woman decides to work, it means she has "no maternal attachment" and if she decides to stay home raising her children, she is labeled as a kept woman or lazy.
It is true that today's society has allowed women to perform in the work and academic fields (one of the few good things about feminism), a woman is not only a baby-making machine. Now women who want to have children sometimes do not have the fortune of being able to stay at home exclusively raising them. With the economic crisis, women are basically forced to leave home and not be able to perform their maternal role as they wish. Many women who leave their children in daycare or with nannies feel guilty almost daily for not being able to spend more time with them. To further feed the maternal guilt that is already quite large, someone comes along and writes something like this. Being a mother is more exhausting than going to work, that is very true, but a mother will always, always prefer to be with her children, but the current system has that flaw that separates mothers from their children.
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21 sats \ 2 replies \ @k00b 17 Dec
Nowadays, it’s normal for a woman to prioritize her career over childrearing, as 66% of moms with kids under age 6 are working instead of staying home. Moms with kids older than 6 go back to work 74% of the time.
This is the only stat that's shared. It certainly implies some physical detachment but it's not really enough to buy into the premise.
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The article is very "rant-y", but still maybe over the target, or a target, at least.
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33 sats \ 0 replies \ @anon 17 Dec
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