Yes - I've mellowed. I'd ask more questions now, and let him tie himself into knots. I was too caught up in the heat of the moment last time.

God willing I'll be a father this year - although I probably won't be public about it. I'm going to want to preserve their privacy when they're young. And I'm not sure if fathers need a dedicated book. During my reseacrh, much of the wisdom and insights came from men who were fathers - so I think the princples apply. What I'll most likely do - maybe 5yrs from now, is write an updated edition, as a father. It will be more mature and I'll have a chance to add some new insights.