This came to me when I was taking my cold shower this morning. @PictureRoom mentioned that she has been taking cold showers for the past 3 years. Now, I have no excuses since I live in a tropical country and experience no winters haha.
I think I brought with me a LinkedIn-like mentality when I first came here two years ago. Find my niche, position myself as a content expert, and write informative articles that seek to educate (and perhaps entertain) the reader. I was preoccupied with finding the gaps in SN’s offerings and then writing something to plug some of the gaps.
This meant that I sometimes tackled topics that were out of my league. I did research and cautiously titled my article “8 Basic Things About (insert topic)”, for fear of incurring backlash if my understanding is more flawed than enlightening. I took myself quite seriously!
Some way along the line, I changed the way I post here. I treat it more as an online water cooler, where I just share snippets of my day with the people who happen to be here. I mean, I do try to maintain a certain rigorous standard in my writing, but the pressure’s largely off. I don’t feel like I have to fit into a certain mould for my writing to be acknowledged. I can just write random stuff. It may or may not resonate with people out there, but since writing is a reward in itself, I don’t anticipate readers’ responses so much.
I think I have come to pivot this way because I value people’s lived experiences more. Just knowing that someone is doing the same thing/ undergoing similar experiences lets me feel that I have reaped dividends. This makes posting less stressful for me, I reckon. I am enough. Maybe not enough to garner 10k+ sats per post, but that doesn’t negate my worth.
How about you?