Both.

Because I’m extroverted and meet new people on my job. And Singapore is a compact country - it’s not difficult to meet new people to exchange ideas (even for a time-pressed father like me).

My wife lives in the Japanese countryside (inaka), so my offline life crawls to a standstill every Dec I stay at my parents-in-law’s place. So I think my offline life in the city is more happening than that at her territory