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Yea, over time I've come to empathize with people who are so occupied by being in survival mode that they don't have the mental bandwidth take in the bigger picture.
That's why orange pilling is a lost cause in many cases, a slow drip is more effective than a flood... you first have to get them to reject survival mode as a state of being, and the fear of change that keeps them there.
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