Being toxic is just a narrative, are you toxic when you defend your property from someone trying to attack it? People who come with humility to bitcoin get treated really well, just like someone who steps onto your property with respect, if they come onto your property with malice its your duty to defend it
The only people who think bitcoiners are toxic are people who shil scams, or are looking to drag others into the scam with them, if caring about others wellbeing is toxic then so be it, name it what you will
Criminals thrive on the "understanding" of society, and look where that has got people in the fiat system, it hasn't done them any favours, having barriers, boundaries and laws is not toxic