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What irritates you most often?
130 sats \ 17 comments \ @Coinsreporter 12 Jun AskSN
I mean something that destroys your peace of mind so very often.
For me it's my big joint family. Don't be surprised. I like to be living together like most suburb Indians. But I accept when I'm being called again and again for this or that and I'm trying to reflect upon something else, I easily get irritated. That's the one and only drawback I find while living together in a combined and big joint family.
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31 sats \ 3 replies \ @Aardvark 12 Jun
People wasting my time at work.
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21 sats \ 2 replies \ @Coinsreporter OP 12 Jun
Yeah! I could've put it in the same way. Many times people call me for things that are quite irrelevant and can be done without me. You know people who have free time, waste other people's time.
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20 sats \ 1 reply \ @Aardvark 12 Jun
I don't get to go home until the job is complete. When people waste my time, they're literally making my work day longer.
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21 sats \ 0 replies \ @Coinsreporter OP 12 Jun
Not the case with me as I no longer work. But yeah people at home also waste my time. Haha
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7 sats \ 0 replies \ @k00b 23h
hypocrisy - people shouting they're transparent and hiding relevant info fronting - people pretending they care or are thoughtful or are some other high status thing when they don't/aren't non-attribution - people selectively forgetting where they get their inspiration because they think it makes them high status to be the origin (the worst part is imo is that it's not even self-serving ... for anyone that sees through it, which they do eventually if the work is important, it lowers status) scams - people putting any effort into the above, broadly characterized as duping people, and starving themselves of real work/creativity
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7 sats \ 0 replies \ @zuspotirko 12 Jun
Low quality.
Low quality everywhere. At work. When I buy stuff as a consumer. Everywhere.
At work I am annoyed how few people really strive for excellence, most people just want to pass time and survive. Few people really want to find solutions, make solutions that are resilient, have longevity, and want to genuinely help and excite customers.
As a consumer I often see myself not buying anything at all (which is good too) or only going for the very high end flagship stuff. What irritates me the most here are people who say they "buy less but only high quality" and then not fucking buy high quality.
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7 sats \ 0 replies \ @fishious 12 Jun
For me it's not so much a specific event/trigger that irritates me, and has more to do with my physical state. When I'm hungry and/or tired even minor things can be irritating, so I try to be mindful of my physical well-being and stay rested as best as I can.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Solomonsatoshi 23h
Libertarians incapable of comprehending the massive and central flaw in their ideology- the intrinsic relationship between governments and the economic opportunity and security of citizens.
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0 sats \ 1 reply \ @seashell 12 Jun
People assuming they know what I’m thinking or feeling when I’m just trying to express my thoughts. You got NO idea!
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Solomonsatoshi 23h
Maybe you need to express yourself more clearly and accept that no matter how clearly you express your thoughts and feelings, some will misunderstand you. It is one of the risks you take when you seek to express yourself.
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0 sats \ 6 replies \ @RideandSmile 12 Jun
Or may be the question should be ?
What did i not manage/solve... in my life ?
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0 sats \ 5 replies \ @Coinsreporter OP 12 Jun
It's not like this. We've diferent houses for everyone close to one another but because it's in our culture not to take appointment for a dinner with our parents, I guess this is a small cost for real happiness.
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0 sats \ 4 replies \ @RideandSmile 12 Jun
Nothing external should destroy your inner peace (i know it s not easy to do but this is where we should tend to).
The external world can be not always we want but our inner world should be
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0 sats \ 3 replies \ @Coinsreporter OP 12 Jun
If I choose not to live together, that will permanently bereft my inner peace. The occasional disturbance is what most people prefer over the permanent ones.
My extended family is also a source of inner peace in many ways. So, I can't agree on what you just said.
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0 sats \ 2 replies \ @RideandSmile 12 Jun
If I choose not to live together, that will permanently bereft my inner peace.
or it s something you did manage or solve...
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21 sats \ 1 reply \ @Coinsreporter OP 12 Jun
Yeah, I had lived away from my parents and family for work for at least 15 years, but that wasn't very easy, I could do it for I wasn't married, didn't have a kid. Now I can't even imagine same lony life again...
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