Good luck! Finding the right person to spend your life with makes an enormous difference.

Thanks, I appreciate the feedback. I assumed this level of mismatch wouldn't necessarily be an issue. I'll prioritize meeting in person asap to try and get a better feel for things.

I think while she would like to have children (or at least used to want this), this is not something she is dead set on any longer. But probably something I should probe further to make sure she isn't just saying something she thinks I want to hear.

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Is this person a good fit for me or too many challenges?

I think the biggest thing is actually meeting in person and seeing how you really like each other. Pretty much everything else is negotiable.

Most of those mismatches are perfectly normal. I know very happy couples with far less in common and unhappy couples with far more.

The big one is the issue of children. As you say, that may be moot given age, but in my experience that issue is the ultimate deal-breaker for relationships.