Excellent guide! I have fun reading all of your writeups.
One guide I would love to see: how to use Tailscale to run a LNBits server that’s connected to your private or public node.
I think this is a crucial step to enable private but fast transactions using LNURL (that doesn’t require tor for the end user)
LNbits over Tailscale will not gonna work. Tailscale is a private VPN IP, that means it cannot deliver https over internet (that LNbits require).
If you want to make your LNbits accessible on internet use the caddy or nginx options. See the LNbits documentation page for further instructions. https://github.com/lnbits/lnbits/wiki/LNbits-Documentation#additional-guides