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Oh... I have some thoughts on this. Can't say I've mastered it, still struggling. But I'm keeping my head above the water. A couple of specific examples on SN: #849565 , #1201227, #1199245
And basically both chapter 9 & chapter 15 of my book deal with such issues, i.e.:
"REMEMBER: You are not doing this for you, you are not doing this for the money. YOU ARE DOING THIS FOR YOUR FUTURE WIFE AND CHILDREN. YOU ARE DOING THIS BECAUSE THE WORLD NEEDS IT."